Whether you went to college, trade school, or opened your own business, if you’re a successful professional, you’ve probably worked really hard to get to where you are.Staying up late, giving up your weekends, and missing out on time spent with your loved ones are some of the sacrifices you may have made.But how do you quantify chemistry on a dating site?You can’t – face to face interaction is the only way to see if sparks fly between the two of you.She doesn’t have time to talk to everyone, so she’s forced to make split second decisions regarding who’s worthy of her time.If she has the slightest reason to eliminate you from the running, she will.
The hotter a woman is, the more messages she receives – and the pickier she has to become.
As Aziz Ansari noted in his book, Modern Romance, men spend way too much time focusing on the “online” part of online dating.
Scrolling through profiles, doggedly churning out message after message to the attractive women they want to date. The bad news is the average guy has to send out a whopping 114 messages to be guaranteed 1 response.
Even worse, you’ve been ghosted so many times your bros have started calling you Casper.
You’re totally over Tinder and whichever other dating app it was that you tried last week.
You probably spend countless hours every week clicking through profiles and messaging attractive women on dating sites and apps.