They refer to him as my "boy toy" and never ask me anything about him of substance.
They only ask about sex — assuming it must be amazing because he's allegedly so young and energetic, right?
If you think your guy friend might have a secret crush on you, then it will be a problem.
He explained that in an attempt to live out his passion without the fame‚ he did theatre for over 16 years.
Khaya explained that since his Uzalo debut‚ a lot changed for him and he's now at a point where he wishes for people to know the real him.
When I bring up serious issues or emotions regarding him, they dismiss me and say things like my relationship must be so easy because he's so young and it's so casual. Of my close girlfriends, most are married and not completely happy. But I don't think it's jealousy, at least not totally.
When I explain it's not casual, they just laugh it off. I honestly think they just don't take him or us seriously because they look at the age difference and assume it's all about the physical aspects.
Both of you need to be on the same page in case either of you start developing feelings for each other. Be honest about what you like and what you don’t like.