Now, when we start getting into geographic restrictions, religious and political preferences and down right attractiveness, you can see how this pool of eligible bachelors suddenly becomes very small.
So, you logged in less frequently, and you received fewer messages.
He wanted to be with her but couldn’t afford to take the trips that she wanted to take and she was afraid to set a bad precedent by paying for him to go with her. She wasn’t willing to adjust her lifestyle to let a great guy in.
Many of my clients are not top 1% earners but they create similar boundaries by being unwilling to date someone outside of their immediate geographic area, without their same level of education, or who doesn’t have kids.
It will feel awkward at first – like trying to drive on the other side of the road in another country or like writing with your non-dominant hand.
That is all part of the process of becoming aware and mindful of your thoughts.
It’s time for us to embrace the impact of technology on the mating process.