So as a girl, how do you know when a man is only interested in having sex with you, or when a man is plainly being a player?
There are certain signs that you can watch out for, which can be a helpful indication.
He kept sending me messages over and over, but I didn’t respond.
My catfish was not very intelligent, I was very cold with him and didn’t give him reason to think I was interested romantically in him. But it got me thinking, had I been someone else who was very lonely and in a vulnerable place in my life, would I fall for it?
When a guy is a player, his intention is to “capture” as many girls as he can.
I asked him in conversation what time it was where he was, he gave the WRONG answer.
His vocabulary, the words he used, were not typical English, or even UK slang … I speak to people from all over the world and I can tell where they are from.
Sometimes, some will send me messages and I don’t answer unless I’m bored or intrigued. He was quite attractive and had several pictures on his profile doing different things. I checked out his profile further, it was a newer profile. He listed a hometown in the UK as well as a job, education and a telephone number.
When I called him on it he said he didn’t see right on his clock. Then the next time I asked him what the weather was like where he was at.
They choose to believe in something that isn’t tangible.