You know how the saying goes – men are from Mars, women are from Venus and they both speak totally, fucking different languages.
You don’t need to play a role or pretend to be someone you’re not in order to talk dirty. The idea of practicing sex talk may sound stupid, but it’s actually an easy way to figure out what your comfort levels are, what words you like, and how dirty talk affects you.There’s something thrilling about using a word that’s "bad." If you’re unsure about particular words or phrases, talk to your partner about it beforehand.For example, you could say, “Sometimes when we’re having sex I get so into it and want you to call me dirty names like ‘slut.' How does that sound to you?If your partner is already vocal in the sack, try taking some cues from him. Think about eating ice cream that you’re enjoying silently.Now think about eating your ice cream while exclaiming, “this is the best ice cream I have ever eaten." Totally different experience, right?I’m here to teach you how to make some noise in bed — without feeling like a moron. And there are plenty of ways to do it without feeling like a dumbass. I once worked with a woman who was very vocal in the bedroom — but hated herself for it.